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Chronic Illness and Relationships: The Truth About Love and Loyalty

Nov 1, 2025

Chronic illness and relationships donโ€™t always look how you pictured. But the love you find may be more honest now. When youโ€™re navigating life with a chronic illness, everything shifts โ€” […]

Can You Chase Big Dreams with Chronic Illness? The Honest Answer

Sep 18, 2025

Living with chronic illness can feel like every dream has a giant โ€œpauseโ€ button on it. The fatigue, pain, and unpredictability make big goals seem out of reach. But does illness mean you have to give up dreaming altogetherโ€”or can you still chase what matters, just differently?

The Invisible Weight of Chronic Illness: What No One Sees But You Feel

Jun 20, 2025

Recently, I found myself in full-on meltdown mode. I had just finished yet another round of bloodwork, and the results came back showing my kidney function were still low. I […]

Meet Evelyn Miller: Finding Peace, Purpose, and Connection While Living with MS

May 26, 2025

If youโ€™ve ever felt like your chronic illness turned your life upside down before you even knew what was happeningโ€”Evelyn Miller gets it. Her journey with Multiple Sclerosis didnโ€™t come […]

Spring into Action: Setting Healthy Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

Apr 23, 2025

Springโ€™s here, and if youโ€™re anything like me, itโ€™s the perfect time to refresh and reassess. While the flowers bloom and the days get longer, itโ€™s easy to get caught […]

How to Find Joy in the Little Things

Apr 9, 2025

Spring is supposed to be a season of growth and renewal, right? But for those of us living with chronic illness, it can sometimes feel like the world is moving […]

Setting Boundaries Without Guilt

Mar 18, 2025

I used to think saying โ€œnoโ€ was basically a crime. Like, if someone asked me to do something, I had to say yes. Otherwise, I was a bad daughter, a bad person, […]

When Life Forces You to Reset

Mar 3, 2025

You ever have one of those moments where your body just slams on the brakes and says, “Nope, weโ€™re done”? No warning, no grace, just a full-stop shutdown. A forced reset. Yeah, […]

The Many Forms of Love: How Connection with Others Fuels Us

Feb 18, 2025

Love comes in many formsโ€”through friends, faith, and community. You are never alone. Find connection and support in The Unseen Sisterhood. ๐Ÿ’œ

Learning to Love Myself Through Chronic Illness

Feb 11, 2025

I’ve spent my whole life not loving myself. Not the way I did when I was a little girl, not the way I should love myself. I’ve struggled with my […]

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Manage Energy Like a Pro: Top Spoonie Hacks for Daily Life

Jan 21, 2025

Letโ€™s face it, when youโ€™re living with a chronic illness, your energy isnโ€™t just limitedโ€”itโ€™s precious. Every spoon counts, and using one on the wrong thing can mean the difference […]

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Reframing Resolutions: Setting Intentions That Work with Chronic Illness

Jan 6, 2025

Hands up if your January usually starts with a long list of “shoulds”: “I should exercise more, eat healthier, be more organizedโ€ฆ” (My hand is so raised!). But if you’re […]

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Hi, I'm April

I live with Ankylosing Spondylitis, Fibromyalgia, migraines, and anxiety. Though I donโ€™t let that define me, Iโ€™m also a lover of Jesus, coffee enthusiast, dog mom, and even a grandma. 

I went undiagnosed for many years, feeling like I was crazy. I knew something was wrong, more than โ€œjust being a womanโ€, but felt like no one was really listening to me. I was finally diagnosed at the age of 44 and began to get medical help for my diagnosis. It was a relief to finally feel seen and heard.

I decided to start The Invisible Illness Club, after a nudge from God. I felt that women with chronic illnesses needed a way to come together, encourage each other, and feel seen. I know what it feels like to feel so alone, and no one should have to feel that way.

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