My Body Is Loud: Chronic Illness Boundaries, and the Guilt of Taking Up Space
Living with chronic illness means learning to stop apologizing for your body. A grounded, honest reflection on symptoms, boundaries, and self-trust.
Chronic Illness Pacing Tips That Actually Work
Learn how to pace with chronic illness without guilt, shame, or burnout. Practical chronic illness pacing tips to help you rest, recover, and live with more energy.
Year-End Letting Go for Chronic Illness Warriors
I can’t carry everything. So I’m choosing what comes with me. There’s something sacred about the space between years. It’s like standing in a doorway—one hand still on what was, […]
How to Explain Your Chronic Illness to Friends or a Partner
When they don’t get it, it’s not because you failed. You’re not too much. They’re just unprepared. Learning how to explain chronic illness to friends or a partner isn’t easy. You’re trying […]
Chronic Illness Reflection: A Gentle End-of-Year Check-In for Spoonies
End your year with a mindful chronic illness reflection—no shame, no pressure. Discover what worked, what didn’t, and how to take your next best step.
When Your Chronic Illness Body Says No: A Turning Point You Can’t Ignore
I didn’t plan to stop. My body did that for me. It was the moment my chronic illness body said no, and I had no choice but to listen. For […]
Chronic Illness and Relationships: The Truth About Love and Loyalty
Chronic illness and relationships don’t always look how you pictured. But the love you find may be more honest now. When you’re navigating life with a chronic illness, everything shifts — […]
Can You Chase Big Dreams with Chronic Illness? The Honest Answer
Living with chronic illness can feel like every dream has a giant “pause” button on it. The fatigue, pain, and unpredictability make big goals seem out of reach. But does illness mean you have to give up dreaming altogether—or can you still chase what matters, just differently?
The Invisible Weight of Chronic Illness: What No One Sees But You Feel
Recently, I found myself in full-on meltdown mode. I had just finished yet another round of bloodwork, and the results came back showing my kidney function were still low. I […]
Meet Evelyn Miller: Finding Peace, Purpose, and Connection While Living with MS
If you’ve ever felt like your chronic illness turned your life upside down before you even knew what was happening—Evelyn Miller gets it. Her journey with Multiple Sclerosis didn’t come […]
Spring into Action: Setting Healthy Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty
Spring’s here, and if you’re anything like me, it’s the perfect time to refresh and reassess. While the flowers bloom and the days get longer, it’s easy to get caught […]
How to Find Joy in the Little Things
Spring is supposed to be a season of growth and renewal, right? But for those of us living with chronic illness, it can sometimes feel like the world is moving […]
Hi, I'm April
I live with Ankylosing Spondylitis, Fibromyalgia, migraines, and anxiety. Though I don’t let that define me, I’m also a lover of Jesus, coffee enthusiast, dog mom, and even a grandma.
I went undiagnosed for many years, feeling like I was crazy. I knew something was wrong, more than “just being a woman”, but felt like no one was really listening to me. I was finally diagnosed at the age of 44 and began to get medical help for my diagnosis. It was a relief to finally feel seen and heard.
I decided to start The Invisible Illness Club, after a nudge from God. I felt that women with chronic illnesses needed a way to come together, encourage each other, and feel seen. I know what it feels like to feel so alone, and no one should have to feel that way.
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